i h*** it by updating an user, all tabs are in wrong order....
In next bigger release i hope its a clean fix, but for next time a small and easy way
@interface/web(admin/form/user.tform.php add by line ~ 97
$modules_list2 = array ( 'dashboard' => 'dashboard','admin' => 'admin', 'client' => 'client', 'mail' => 'mail','sites' => 'sites', 'domain' => 'domain', 'dns' => 'dns', 'help' => 'help', 'monitor' => 'monitor', 'tools' => 'tools');
$modules_list = $modules_list2 + $modules_list;
1 row i get with var_export($modules_list) -> order it and second row is to merge the arrays with original list (if anybody has another tab)
(i hope development is right and not tips and tricks)