relay=fmailhost.isp.att.net[18.104.22.168]:465, delay=125, delays=4.4/0/120/0, dsn=4.4.2, status=deferred (lost connection with fmailhost.isp.att.net[22.214.171.124] while performing the EHLO handshake)
Now, if i go to my https://sitename.net:81/roundcubemail/
i can send and receive. oh, one other big factor. From the web site i am using as an example. if i sign up on that forum with an email that is one from any of my sites hosted on this ispconfig server in question....they will appear. that is great news for me but my users out there don't have email accounts on my server ....
It is a bit troublesome to me at this point. what can i test to get an answer? (Remember that if i use the fmailhost.isp.att.net in my Outlook Client as the smtp server it will work)