guess what it seems to be sending mail
I will log into my hotmail account and find out
here is the last two logs in the mail.log
Jul 3 07:54:19 rockinghamgateway courierpop3login: LOGIN, user=tommytomato, ip=[::ffff:192.168.1.7]
Jul 3 07:54:19 rockinghamgateway courierpop3login: LOGOUT, user=tommytomato, ip=[::ffff:192.168.1.7], top=0, retr=0, time=0
Yes i recive the mail in the hotmail account, will now try and send one back to sender address
edit yep i had to open the router ports up to recive mail from the outside, but it worked.
thanks for the support flako, is this system pretty sercue from spammers ?