After much frustration I turned off ISPConfig for now.
I am so new at this I haven't even really learned Linux not to mention server operations on top of that. I am going to step back and concentrate on those first. I really only want to host my site and maybe one for my wife when I get more experience.
I transferred my domain over the weekend and will know if I am getting anywhere with my Linux/server education as soon as everything goes through.
Maybe down the road when I get a handle on the basics I can turn ISPConfig back on and host for some friends.
I do appreciate the patience you, till, and other memebrs have shown me.
I still have some basic operation questions but I will put them in a section where they are applicable.
p.s. as I asked before I will still be linking your site, I am redesigning my site so it will be in the new one when I get it done