Little further information as I'm now sextiple checking my configs, everything still looks good
I have the correct data in the mysql-virtual_mailbox_limit_maps.cf
query = SELECT quota FROM users WHERE email='%s'
and the like, has the correct db information, so it shouldn't be a connection issue, as well as the mysql logs don't show any issues
the main.cf file seems to be correct, but I've been playing around with it a bit
the line that reads
mailbox_size_limit = 0
I tried changing that to a fixed number, just to see what would happen, nothing changed, I tried commenting it out as well, no change, I did remove the 'proxy: from in front of all the lines that call the postfix .cf files, but other then that, all the lines read exactly as I pulled them from the how-to.
man, I hope I can't sort this out, everything else is working flawlessly, but we have a few users that would definitely go nuts, have a few people bouncing off the current size restriction on a daily basis so I need to have this hard limit in here or it will get ridiculous real quick so I can't go live with it