Well I guess I won't have any help with this, so I rolled back to the original setting in MailScanner.com ie:
Is Definitely Not Spam = %rules-dir%/spam.whitelist.rules
Is Definitely Spam = no
Afterall The &SQLBlacklist and &SQLWhitelist settings were intended to integrate SQL Blacklist /Whitelist within MailWath for Administrative purposes.... I guess...
So as I mentioned I did a rollback to the original setttings and everything seems to work fine now.
Should anyone come up with any ideas I would appreciate.
I am very novice to all these stuff.