Okay, now we are back to square one, I deleted my site with ispconfig, then readded my site.
both sites are defaulting again, so i checked listen.conf and NamedVirtualHost *:80 is still uncommented
restarted apache and got the following error:
Syntax error on line 70 of /etc/apache2/sites-enabled/kreativkakes.hobby-site.com.vhost:
Invalid command 'ReWriteModule', perhaps misspelled or defined by a module not included in the server configuration
so i edited the vhost at the very bottom and commented out the "ReWriteModule On", then restarted again.
apache started but still getting default on both sites
so when i add a site, apache begins serving only that sites content on all domains. so maybe there is more to the DNS settings that i am just too dumb to figure out.
getting frustrated, please help