i found solution
cd /tmp
wget
http://www.modruby.net/archive/mod_ruby-1.3.0.tar.gz
tar zxvf mod_ruby-1.3.0.tar.gz
cd mod_ruby-1.3.0/
./configure.rb --with-apr-includes=/usr/include/apr-1
then open /tmp/mod_rubyx.x.x folder
and there you have one file named apachelib.h
open that file put this '#define OPT_INCNOEXEC 32' after '#define APACHELIB_H'
and all working fine with make and make install comand. no error output anymore