Thanks for the help so far but I still have a problem with 1 local ISP.
I got my server the sniff both ports 25 and 587 no problem, the problem is that the ISP also uses port 587
So my ??? is how to sniff port 465 what lines in the master.cf do I alter ?
I'm hoping they dont use it.
The badguy ISP (wireless service) email send server settings are
If you are on their network : smtp.amaonline.com port 25
Off network (roaming) smtpauth.amaonline.com port 25 and if you have problems use port 587.