Alright! I been doing research and I figured it out from one of your old post.
I went and downloaded version 2.2.18
then I did
apt-get install mysql-server mysql-client libmysqlclient15-dev
then and #bind-address
then re ran the setup.
Once it finished i was able to access it! but admin, admin didn't work.
I re-enabled my php and installed phpMyAdmin.
Went to my db_ispconfig and noticed it was blank. I uploaded the SQL file that came with the install and pasted it into phpMyAdmin and hit go. Now everything works perfectly!