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Thank you for the reply.

Edit: I have just found in this link, that I must follow other tuturials before, so that should be in this order:

1 The Perfect Setup - Debian Etch (Debian 4.0)
2 Installing Lighttpd With PHP5 And MySQL Support On Debian Etch
3 Reduce Apache's Load With lighttpd On Debian Etch

Can you expert please confirm this is right? Seems I will install apache. As long as I don't really use it anyway, that is cool with me