Ok falco it was a long session in our IT department - these guy don't like people running their own things within universities :-)
here is the outcome of the exhausting conversation - we have and outgoing server load-balance-smtpout.mmu.ac.uk. I remember that when I've setup our old server (which will be replaced by the one I am setting up ISPConfig on) I configured sendmail.cf and entered there this server. Do I need to do something like this in ICPConfig or is it something I need to do in the intestines of SUSE?
As for the other problem - I can't find famd in /etc/init.d ! Is it something I have to install additionally? Why wasn't it mentioned in the HOWTO "The Perfect ...." Anyway will this
Failed to create cache file: maildirwatch (bogdan)
be sorted out together with famd?
Cheers for your appreciated HARD work!!!