I called to double check and they claim not to be blocking any ports at all (although its at home, its a business account and supposed to be open to the world).
I can telnet to ports 25, 110 and 993 and get connected, 993 never returns which I assume is correct, it at least connects.
telnet mail.myhost.com 465
Connecting To mail.myhost.com...Could not open connection to the host, on
port 465: Connect failed
So something else is not correct, this non-connect explains why nothing shows up in the logs. For now, I am using TLS but any ideas ?
netstat -tap does NOT show 465, it shows 10024, 10025, 3306, 80, 25, 993, 995, 110, 143, 22