Okee, Its little bit better now but I can't see any emails.
I know that the mail is deliverd to my server I can see that in my rollernet logs
Message from mail.rollernet.us accepted by 84.31.***.** (www.***-online.nl) after 3 seconds.
From: Queue F4060582F79D
Date: 2008-01-08 21:48:58 sent (250 2.0.0 Ok: queued as 8CBF97F4041)
Also in my webmail (roundcube) no email is ariving